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Inspiration/Enlightenment

The Grace Exchange

“Are you a motivational speaker or something?”

Masako is a wonderful lady who works at the Wawa in my local area. Her customer service is incredible and she radiates positive energy, serving customers with grace and a warmth unseen in these times. I immediately went to her line when I heard she was there, not that I was told she was there. She is so jolly and upbeat you can hear her before you see her. When it was my turn to check out she welcomed me to the store and greeted me warmly as she does everyone, but after her greeting I began to lavish her with the love, grace, and gratitude she gives out. I don’t think this was an every day occurrence for her because as I was returning the Love she was clearly taken back. She looked at me smiling with red cheeks and said, “Are you a motivational speaker or something?”

“Yes,” I replied emphatically, me being the one taken back this time. Now, I wasn’t taken back by what she said, although it is a nice, complimentary thing to say to someone. Rather, I was taken back because at that exact moment I knew YAH was at work – revealing, confirming, and affirming my identity through someone who sensed but didn’t realize the depths of what was said. “How did you know that?” (Better translated, “How did you know who I was)?”

“Because you have a way (I would say The Way) of making people feel good. You motivated my spirit!” How can a perfect stranger confirm one’s identity perfectly? Answer: flesh and blood did not reveal it. No one told her I was a motivator of people. I for sure didn’t. My Father Gracefully revealed my identity to her by the flow and exchange of Grace between her and I. Grace always reveals and confirms identity. Wait a minute. Grace is The Way (the means) of making people feel good? Yes! The Way of making people feel loved, feel special, feel authenticated? Yes! You better believe it! Now go out and exchange Grace!!

Masako gives out grace daily, allowing her light to shine before men/mankind (Matt. 5:16). By the Grace of the LORD YAH in me I gave her Grace in return – stimulating her Grace supply! The effect? Her spirit was motivated, her heart was glad, her cheeks were red, and she was given divine insight into the identity of a stranger. Now, those are “special effects” if you ask me! She was given discernment into who I was as a result of the ministration of Grace. Wow. This Grace is glorious. This Grace is beautiful. This Grace is confirming! This Grace is everlasting! Yahusha the MessiYAH!! Ahh!!

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The Shampoo Brush

What am I most proud of since the Grace, Spirit, power, love, faith, life, light of Jesus entered my soul? The ability to see. Specifically, the ability to see great lessons in seemingly small or insignificant situations and thingseven a shampoo brush! Tune in for the Grace of Jesus in truth on Holes 2 Whole Podcast. This is redemption. This is purpose. This is Born Leader. Amen 🙏🏾

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Inspiration/Enlightenment Purpose/Destiny

Grace: A New Wrinkle

I was in the process of editing and posting a video clip on social media yesterday, and as I was writing the caption the LORD showed me another wrinkle of His Grace in my life.

I was running. I thought I was running to things to fulfill me because I was driven or fueled up by past pain, hurt, failures, etc., and I was. However, yesterday the LORD showed me, within all of the running, I was actually running from the call – His call on my life! I was scared of it. I didn’t want it (think Moses). Like Moses, I wasn’t an eloquent speaker. I stuttered all my life, so the call to lead, minister, and speak the wondrous works of GOD scared me! You have the wrong guy! How is this going to work LORD?!?! You don’t know what You’re talking about! So, an internal battle ensued. On one hand, I knew I was different. I knew I had potential, as there were flashes of promise at different points throughout my life. On the other, I had a speech impediment which crippled my confidence and despaired my soul! So, as Moses did, I ran. I ran to business to find fulfillment. I ran to music. I ran to things, all in an effort to circumvent or bypass the call! Guess what? All of my vain, futile attempts led me to the wilderness – where I encountered the LORD, just as He planned all along.

I ran from speaking. I would crouch and cower in fear! Now, I live to speak and speak to live. Wow. What a Savior. What a Redeemer. What Grace! The Grace of Moses? You better believe it. In Jesus name.

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Children/Youth Empowerment Fitness/Training Inspiration/Enlightenment Purpose/Destiny

Deepening Relationship: Real Love ❤️

REAL LOVE takes responsibility – accepts the challenge, task, or mission – to do what’s necessary – what MUST be done.

I was talking to my son the other day about some negative thoughts (lies) he has allowed to resurface in his mind. He’s been the target of teasing, bullying, and rejection from peers in the past, and the trauma from those experiences had resulted in low self-esteem, a confused identity, and hopelessness – believing the lies you’re not good enough and no one cares. Fast forward a little: the Grace of GOD appeared to me, revolutionized my life, freeing me from the very same powers of lies and limiting beliefs that have plagued my son! I am now validated and equipped to help him by the mercies of GOD, so in a very real way I was saved to save my son! We have been won over by the Lord’s love to win people over by the Lord’s love – the essence of the gospel!

In the midst of me ministering to him and our relationship getting better and stronger in the passage of time, those old thoughts, lies, and feelings of hopelessness began to creep and seep back into my son’s mind. I noticed something had been bothering him for a few days, so the Lord, in His Grace, had me take him out on a beautiful spring day to spend time together. I thought I was just taking him out to workout with me, but the Lord had other thoughts. Aren’t you glad His thoughts are higher than ours? (Isa. 55:9) LORD you are so great! O the depths of the riches both of the wisdom and knowledge of GOD! His judgments unsearchable! His ways past finding out! (Rom. 11:33)

After our workout, we sat on a park bench and began to talk – the mental and spiritual portion of our bonding! As I was comforting and encouraging him with the gospel, the Lord Jesus reminded me of the vision He showed me, the purpose He called me to, the need He summoned me to meet: “Ben! Ben! (This is) REAL LOVE!”

Real Love sees a person or people in desperate need and accepts the responsibility to help them by giving yourself. Because when you really care and when you truly love somebody, you give up (sacrifice) yourself – your life and way of life – for them. Is not this the mission and love of Jesus? In that very moment, at the very time with my son, that is exactly what I did, what I was doing, and what I will continue do. Daddy GOD, King Jesus, By Holy Spirit, thank you! Eternally grateful with eternity in mind. In Jesus name.

Watch our workout 🏋️‍♀️ video in previous post! ❤️

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Children/Youth Empowerment

The Internal Gem

Each one of us is born with the gem within – a unique, divinely implanted gift, skill, or ability interwoven by Daddy GOD into the fabric of our being that naturally attracts people to us. The sad reality is this once pure, internal gem given by a pure and beautiful GOD often gets smeared by the staining, demoralizing effects of living in fallen world.

My children struggle with inclusion and acceptance. They are radically different from most of their peers, and they have had to endure bullying and getting picked on because of it. They don’t have the latest phones, tablets, gadgets, and video games. Heck, they’re not even familiar or able to interpret all the latest lingo of their generation. While we have them shielded from certain things and are raising them differently, I have tried to explain to them on several occasions the reason they have endured bullying and other things is not due to that truth. It’s due to the gem 💎 within – the corruption of it, the smearing of it. This corruption leads to a corrupted conscious OF one’s own self and corrupted confidence IN one’s own self. Furthermore, this causes you to devalue the internal gem and place higher value on the external gems, i.e. material things, clothes, phones, video games, etc., leaving you hurt and unfulfilled.

Never trade the internal for the external – the eternal for the temporary. The gem 💎 within, placed purposefully, intricately in the depths of our soul by the great and glorious Father of mercies is enough. The truth of the gem leads to the Truth of GOD, which leads to abundant life and all that comes with it. In Jesus name.

To my children with Love,

Dad